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Good morning everyone has arrived cold and then you have to run for cover!I’ve been talking about my favorite showroom for stoves and fireplaces for a while … well, I’m talking about Vicenza Stufe. In this period Nicola and I are deciding many things for the renovation of our new home and this is another thing that I have been talking about for a while on my social networks; obviously when we have to decide which fireplace to buy, we had no doubts as to where we wanted to go and make our purchase. I have discovered new things, indeed several new things, of which I wanted to speak to you. First of all, do you know anything about the heat account incentive, better known as Thermal Account 2.0?  It is a law that came into force two years ago which provides a cash contribution, for the new installation of stoves, fireplaces and biomass boilers, which meet specific requirements and are installed in place of existing heating systems. Even you can get an economic savings of 65% ……. wow! And the great thing is that Vicenza Stufe organizes a turnkey service! Is not it fantastic? After that, choosing the stove that best suits our needs and that feels good inside our home is not easy, especially when you enter a showroom and you like everything you see! In Vicenza Stufe you can find the most important brands of the whole landscape, both Italian and European. We say without half measures that the Nordic countries with brands like Stuv are leaders in the world, but we too defend ourselves with Piazzetta very well. But I come from the north, as regards the heating sector I addressed a stove that comes from my same cardinal point. After being oriented towards a brand, choosing which was the right machine for our family needs was the second thing not really simple. Fireplaces, stoves or thermostoves? And then wood, pellets, gas or biotanol? It seemed easy, right? And instead….!We are a dynamic family, me and Nicola always work and we stay at  home most in the weekend, but not a lot … we are often around during the weekend and then, which one to choose?
The fireplace or the wood stove is a very natural solution that creates a wonderful climate, but who has time to buy wood, unload it from the car, take it home, place it on the fireplace, wait for it to turn on well, ect … We do not!? And the pallet one? Also, too demanding. We decided that the one that suited us most was the gas one.
We are a modern family, who will have an ultramodern fireplace! Our new home has underfloor heating and therefore we do not need a machine that can heat a large room, but more than anything else that creates a warm environment. I already see that I return home with Ginevra and after taking off shoes and put the slippers on the feet, I press a button on the remote control to get in a very practical and fast way, the fireplace on! Fantastic … Soon I will give you more news, see you soon ….

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Yeah, it looked like the end of the world and I’m still here, now, it’s skill! Cantatelo, good old Vasco … I remember the October of 4 years ago as it was yesterday: announcement on my social blog and most people around me respond to what I’m doing. Already another story would have been if I had opened my site and had lived in Milan, but I live in a small village in Vicenza, far from the star system! Now I tell you one thing. In 2008 I had just published my first book, I stopped making the model and I remember a person from a well-known agency calling me to talk about the birth of this new figure: the fashion blogger. They were part of me, but I said it was not for me and I was not ready for that new kind of communication. From that day six years have passed, an experience as a fashion retailer in a showroom that has been a mad school of life, another book written and published, a collaboration on a radio. Then I decided to open my blog. A blog that would not just be fashionable. I wanted to tell the best thing that happened to me – to be a mother and that was what I would announce primarily. Four years ago mommy bloggers in Italy were really few, just think that when I started publishing on Istagram, the first photographs using the hasmtag #mammablogger were used a hundred times. To date, a few thousand photographs that use that hashtag, crazy! In 2013, fashion bloggers broke out in Milan and I and a few others were simple bloggers! They were the good guys, we the silly little mummies who were making pictures of little kids who needed to change diapers. There was nothing cool in all this. If I think of the tiredness I did, the miles of land to open the door to the farms, if I think about everything I wrote and how much I woke up day and night to continue this project I also smiled! Today I’m just saying that this is my job, that the most fashionable bloggers when they become moms move the goal towards us and become part of the group. To tell you again that this corner of the world called Nichylove.com has given me the chance to be recognized in our country as one of the most influential moms and I do not need to knock on the door because companies try to be a mom today Blogger is Really cool! I was lucky or just intuitive or maybe just a good guy. I had a baby dream and I had to write, years ago I realized that maybe if I had put all this corner of the world I created with my hands would help me to realize that dream and so it was! I know, this is not such a real world, I saw bloggers born and bought more followed than they could ever get in a lifetime. I personally have been familiar with newspapers since I was 15 years old: the first article about me was because I was a volleyball champion in Switzerland, for my fashion career, for my books and now for my blog but I met Some who have never had anything like this and have followed Laura Pausini more! Crazy and very ridiculous! I just sponsored my articles, but above all I wrote so much and founded a lot of traffic on Google. Today my blog has become an important milestone, has made 400 articles. Written articles of my punch, totally created and taken from real life pieces that I have experienced. This is the only secret behind my blog that has reached millions of views with 280,000 true people who follow it inside, without counting the followers on my social! To celebrate this important goal I have updated the site, I hope you enjoy and keep following me with the love and affection you have always shown to me. Thank you !

Per il ponte del 2 giugno, come anticipato, siamo stati a Verbania, sul Lago Maggiore, ospiti in una casa vacanze Homeaway.it  a di poco fantastica. Ad ogni mia foto postata, mi sono arrivate milioni di domande, tutti incuriositi da tanto splendore!

Ecco, senza presunzione, questo è ciò che ho provato io durante il nostro soggiorno in villa Suna a Verbania.  Siamo arrivati tutti e tre già molto entusiasti; la casa poteva ospitare sino a 6 persone e abbiamo colto l’occasione per invitare una coppia di amici con una bimba dell’età di Ginevra (in tanti mi avete chiesto se quella bimba, Allegra, fosse mia figlia: vi assicuro che se avessi avuto un’altra figlia, non l’avrei tenuto nascosto per anni!). Vi assicuro che la visione della casa ci ha lasciato letteralmente senza parole. Avevamo già sbirciato qualche foto dal sito, ma dal vivo l’impatto è stato incredibile. Organizzata in due strutture, la casa principale e la dependance, villa Suna rappresenta sicuramente l’ abitazione dei sogni per la maggior parte delle persone. La casa principale è divisa su due piani: al piano superiore vi si trovano due camere matrimoniali, un bagno, un salotto arredato in stile anni ’50 con chaise longue e cannocchiale per ammirare il paesaggio ed una cucina fornitissima dove era posta l’ormai famosissima altalena trasparente, una vera chicca. Le vetrate, pazzesche, davano la possibilità di spaziare la visuale dal Lago Maggiore alle sue tre Isole Borromee (l’Isola Madre, Dei Pescatori e L’isola Bella), sino al paese di Verbania e poi su, fino alle montagne tutto intorno. Al piano inferiore,  un’altra camera open space con un bagno, un salottino dotato di vanity e due poltrone poste vista lago. Questa enorme terza camera, ha il solo letto matrimoniale, separato da tutto il resto, posto proprio di fronte alla vetrata sul lago e un balcone in legno che si congiunge al giardino della casa e alla piscina. Tutto sistemato in modo ordinato e quasi maniacale: il giardino terrazzato, essendo la casa in collina, ma comunque ricco di vegetazione, statue e ben curato. E poi la piscina che la cui vista dava la percezione di terminare là dove iniziava il lago. La dependance, sempre tutta a vetri era composta da una stanza divisa tra zona salotto e cucina e terminava, giusto per non farsi mancare nulla, con una piccola palestra, ma ultra dotata. Ginevra ed Allegra si sono divertite tantissimo, hanno giocato, nuotato, si sono “perse” in ogni stanza della casa inventandosi le loro mille storie. Una casa a misura di famiglia e bambini. I ragazzi sabato 3 giugno sono andati a comprare il pesce, lo hanno cucinato al barbecue in giardino e poi hanno guardato una delle partite più importanti degli ultimi anni (almeno stando a quello che ci hanno detto loro, patiti di calcio)  Juventus – Real  Madrid nell’enorme proiettore che c’era nel salottino della dependance. In partenza avevamo progettato di andare a visitare un sacco di luoghi, ma la casa ci ha letteralmente stregati e abbiamo preferito goderci totalmente quanto la fortuna ha voluto offrirci. Non abbiamo comunque perso l’occasione di fare il giro del lago con una barchetta e visitare, tra le tre, la bellissima  isola dei Pescatori, dove abbiamo bevuto un aperitivo inebriati dal profumo del gelsomino che cresce ovunque. Che altro dire? Oltre a consigliarvi di visitare il lago Maggiore con il suo turismo quasi di nicchia, non posso fare altro che suggerirvi di cogliere l’opportunità di alloggiare in una casa HomeAway.it , case selezionate e curate che possono contribuire in maniera notevole a rendere la vostra vacanza indimenticabile.  A presto!

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For the June 2nd holiday, as we anticipated, we stayed at Verbania on Lake Maggiore, guests at a fantastic Homeaway.it holiday home. With every photo I posted, millions of questions came to me, all curious for so much splendor!Do you know when you have the feeling of not wanting to ask anything else, why what is already offered is the top? Here this is what I tried during our stay in Villa Suna in Verbania. We’ve leave all three already very excited: the house could accommodate up to 6 people and we took the opportunity to invite a couple of friends with a baby girl from the age of Ginevra (so many asked me if that girl, Allegra, was my daughter!) I assure you that if I had another daughter, I would not have kept it hidden for years!). The house’s vision left us literally speechless. We had already peek some photos from the site, but live the impact was amazing. Organized in two structures, the main house and the dependance, Villa Suna is definitely the home of dreams for most people. The main house is divided into two floors: on the upper floor there are two double bedrooms, a bathroom, a lounge furnished in the 1950s style with a chaise longue and telescope to admire the landscape and a fully equipped kitchen where it was now the famous transparent swing, a real gem. The stained glass windows gave the opportunity to move the view from Lake Maggiore to its three Borromean Islands (l’Isola Madre, Dei Pescatori e L’isola Bella), to the country of Verbania and then up to the mountains all around. Downstairs, another open space with a bathroom, a living room with vanity and two armchair with lake view. This huge third bedroom has the only double bed, separate from everything else, right in front of the stained glass window and a wooden balcony joining the garden of the house and the pool. Everything is arranged neatly and almost maniacally. The attic, always in glass, consisted of a room divided between lounge area and kitchen, and ended, with a small but ultra-equipped gym. Ginevra and Allegra enjoyed a great deal, played, swam, lost in each room of the house inventing their thousand stories. A home for family and children. The guys on Saturday June 3 went to buy the fish, cooked it at the barbecue in the garden and then looked Juventus-Real Madrid, one of the most important games of the last few years, in the huge projector that was in the drawing-room. Before to leave we had planned to visit a lot of places, but the house literally wandered us and we preferred to enjoy totally how lucky he wanted to offer us.  However, we did not miss the opportunity to go on a boat trip and visit, the beautiful Isola dei Pescatori, where we drank something with the fragrance of jasmine growing everywhere. What else to say? Certainly to visit Lake Maggiore with its tourism and than to take the opportunity to stay in a HomeAway.it home, selected and cured homes that can greatly contribute to make your vacation unforgettable. See you soon!

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The keyword of the collection was definitely Leit-Vision: prints representing cascades of flowers tied together with arabesque motifs, reinterpretations of Toile de Jouy in the balance between real worlds and not, micro and macro tartan with inlay of the deer silhouette entries.The exaltation of beauty is realized through the decorativism comes to being three-dimensional knits: damask, flocked jacquard and mix of yarns such as merino wool, lamé and bouclé. La Maison envelops you bringing in a Baroque world where the dialogue of various arts is one of the cardinal aspects. But then we go from Caravaggio to Andy Warhol that take you back to another more lively and bright space and the color shines like a jewel lively. The decorative elements are the background with outstanding optical clarity, bringing a clear vision of the dark seventeenth-century painting with that of Pop Art. But at the core of the whole collection are the mirages of baroque gardens, where the vision is victory for the creative nature: real places and at the same time visionary where you can meet butterflies, seahorses, flowers and leaves. By nature it is born another nature, matter is transformed into new forms jewel-effect trumbe l’oeil, in which the image is in the image. All this vision is intended to codify the asymmetries, transparencies, adhesions and amplitudes striking the imagination with formal solutions that result in combinations of skirts and ruffles on bodice with sleeves blusanti; lace sheath dresses beneath the wheels of tulle with busts from the empire waistline points on the front. Linear and shaped silhouette balances are broken by gogere, flaky applications, ruffles inserts, godet and fringes.

Ph. Verdiana Ramina 

You know when you run so much during your days you get up from the bed and think …. But what day is today? Maybe you think it is Tuesday and instead is already Friday (and this you are definitely happy) !!! Do you ever think that after you manage to do everything that you had planned to do during the week? It ‘so that I will have flown definitely forgot something … Here I am living a period of this type. I spend my days doing so many things that in the end I forget half. Probably I have an attention problem, but here I’m missing something by hand. It is not that we have more commitments than time? So I know that you are thinking that for you is the same thing! We crammed in to a system so hectic that they are unable to get out of it! But then what? I sit down and I laugh, I’m crazy? No, they are simply positive and I try to make my life easier and that is why I am in love with my dryer Vast & Fast because in addition to make my life easier, it also offers a service that does not offer me any other. While I’m running here and there like a centrifuge during my days, she wipes my garments, and I can iron them! And then it gives me peace of mind, because the Vast & Fast Company is an important solid reality that has lived for 15 years and which finds all solutions to all its customers. With my dryer savings in electricity since it is electric and then I take care of the environment because it does not pollute. I have to thank those who always invents appliances capable of helping us women on the move. See you soon.

Non potrei farne a meno! E’ come il battito del mio cuore, il mio respiro, il sorriso di mia figlia. Scrivere mi ha 

Scrivere mi ha salvata dai mille spostamenti di casa che ho fatta da bambina, dai cambiamenti delle scuole e da tutte le volte che ho dovuto ricominciare da zero. Mi ha salvata quando da ragazzina venivo presa in giro o quando i miei amici hanno iniziato ad usare la droga. Scrivere mi ha aiutato a capire meglio gli altri e a imparare a riflettere; mi ha aiutata a conoscere meglio me stessa e a prendere consapevolezza di chi ero senza averne paura o sentirmene in colpa. Scrivere per me è una necessità, un’energia fluida e magnetica di cui non posso fare a meno. La scrittura mi ha fatto tanta compagnia soprattutto tutte le volte che mi sono sentita sola o quando mi dicevano che dovevo essere diversa da quello che ero e io non riuscivo ad
essere me stessa perché non abbastanza forte. Scrivere è così tanto importante per me che ho lottato tutta la mia vita per farlo diventare il mio lavoro, finchè ce l’ho fatta. Sono consapevole del fatto che arrivare dal mondo della moda 
mi ha aiutata molto  e sono onorata che gli stilisti mi apprezzino e siano felici di vestirmi con i loro abiti, poichè mentre loro mi vestono con le loro collezioni, io posso indossare quella che sono: una donna che ama scrivere come se stessa. Scrivere, scrivere e ancora scrivere fino all’ ultimo respiro….. fino all’ ultimo abito..

Ph. Verdiana Ramina

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I could not help it! E ‘as the beating of my heart, my breath, the smile of my daughter. Writing saved me so many times that if mettessi all in a row today, maybe I would not believe it myself. Writing saved me a thousand trips home that I made as a child, by the changes of the schools and all the times that I had to start from scratch. He was saved when I was a young girl teasing or when my friends started using drugs. Writing has helped me to better understand others and to learn how to think; It helped me to know myself better and to become aware of who I was without being afraid or sentirmene guilty. Writing for me is a necessity, fluid and magnetic energy that I can not do without. The writing has made me a lot of company especially every time I felt alone or when they told me I had to be different from what I was and I was not able to be myself why not strong enough. Writing is so important to me that I have fought all my life to make it my job, as long as I did. I am aware that arrive from the fashion world . It helped a lot and I’m honored that designers appreciate me and are happy to dress with their clothes, because while they dress me with their collections, I can wear what I am: a woman who loves to write as herself. Write, write and write again until the ‘last breath ….. until the’ last dress ..

A tal proposito, Vichy mi ha fatto un regalo bellissimo: mi ha invitata a provare Slow Âge, un trattamento quotidiano che agisce contro i segni dell’età in formazione. Prima di creare questo trattamento, Vichy ha cercato di capire quali siano i fattori principali che causano l’invecchiamento della nostra pelle. Tra questi risultano stress, insufficienti ore di sonno ed alimentazione inappropriata. Vichy ci suggerisce quindi di affrontare la vita in maniera più serena. Ma quali sono i punti fondamentali della filosofia Slow Life? Apprezzare la bellezza di ogni giorno, correre meno e dormire almeno otto ore per notte. Concedersi un’ora di tempo per fare sport o una passeggiata, mangiare sano e soprattutto credere in se stessi. Mi sono quindi messa in testa tutte queste belle cose e che ho fatto? Ho iniziato ad andare a dormire prima la sera e a concedermi del tempo per me stessa, ad esempio immergendomi in un bel bagno caldo rilassante. La mattina invece, dopo essermi lavata bene il viso lo massaggio delicatamente stendendo Slow Âge sul volto e sul collo. Il trattamento si assorbe velocemente perché ha una consistenza fresca e leggera, inoltre ha un gradevolissimo profumo e un fattore SPF25 per proteggermi dall’invecchiamento causato dai raggi UV! La formula di Slow Âge associa 3 ingredienti preziosi:

• La Baicalina, antiossidante estratto da radici usate da più di 2.000 anni in Cina.
• Bifidus Fortificante, derivato da probiotici
• Acqua Termale Mineralizzante Vichy, ricca di 15 minerali prezioso

Il risultato è una pelle, piena, forte, visibilmente più liscia e dall’aspetto giovane. Ho preso talmente alla lettera i consigli degli esperti Vichy che ho prenotato un week-end in montagna che ho trascorso tra passeggiate in mezzo alla natura e relax. Da oggi questa filosofia rispecchierà il mio modo di essere e la mia nuova vita #Slow.

Ph. Verdiana Ramina

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It is never easy to answer the question: how old are you? Of course, when you’re twenty you do not care about anything, in fact, answer and you boast as well. But then came the thirty, thirty-five, and for me the thirty-six! Although I am still lucky, for the moment, because people who do not know my real age give me many years younger, I was terrified to get up one morning and discover that they no longer so fresh-faced! In this regard, Vichy has made me a beautiful gift: he invited me to try Slow Âge, a daily treatment that acts against the signs of age in training. Before creating this treatment, Vichy tried to understand what are the main factors that cause aging of our skin. Among them are stress, insufficient hours of sleep and feeding inappropriate. Vichy then prompts us to approach life in a more serene. But what are the key points of the Slow Life philosophy? Appreciate the beauty of each day, take less and sleep at least eight hours a night. Give yourself an hour to play sports or a walk, eat healthy, and above all to believe in themselves. I then made up her mind all these beautiful things and I’ve done? I started to go to sleep earlier in the evening and to give me some time to myself, for example, immersing myself in a nice relaxing warm bath. The next morning however, after I wash the face well the massage gently stretching Slow Âge on the face and neck. The treatment absorbs quickly because it has a fresh and light texture, it also has a pleasant fragrance and a factor SPF25 to protect from aging caused by UV rays! The Slow Âge formula combines 3 precious ingredients:

.The baicalin, antioxidant extracted from roots used by more than 2,000 years in China.
.Fortifying bifidus, derived from probiotics
.Mineralizing Vichy Thermal Water, rich in precious minerals 15
The result is a skin, full, strong, visibly smoother and younger-looking. I took so much to the letter the advice of experts Vichy I booked a mountain weekend I spent between walks in the nature and relaxation. From today this philosophy will reflect my way of being and my new #SLOW life.

Ci pensate? Io ho passato la mia vita a raccontare i miei segreti alla luna e oggi all’idea di vederla così vicina sono emozionantissima. Voi no ? Con l’espressione Super Luna si intende che sarà la luna piena più vicina al nostro pianeta dall’inizio di questo ventunesimo secolo e si troverà a poco più di 356 mila chilometri da noi. Ecco così che essa ci sembrerà il 14% più grande e ben il 30% più luminosa rispetto a tutte le altre lune piene. Il perigeo sarà raggiunto alle 12:00 circa del 14 novembre e alle 14:00 raggiungerà il culmine della fase di plenilunio. Quindi il momento migliore per osservarla sarà sia la notte di domenica su lunedì, sia quella successiva. La Luna piena del 14 novembre, quindi, non sarà solo la Luna più vicina del 2016, ma anche quella più grande del 21° secolo. L’ultima così si è verificata nel 1948 e la prossima sarà il 25 novembre 2034. Buona serata amici ! A presto…

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Happy Sunday friends: if you are a romantic like me then we can prepare for a unique show, the kind that only nature can offer us. Appointment to go tomorrow night. Yes indeed Monday, November 14, 2016, weather permitting, in our skies could see a super moon, the biggest and brightest of the last 68 years. You think about it? You know that I have spent my life to tell my secrets to the moon and now the idea of ​​seeing her so close are emozionantissima. The expression means that Super Moon will be the closest full moon to our planet since the beginning of this twenty-first century, and comes just over 356,000 km from us. Here’s how it will seem 14% larger and as much as 30% brighter than any other full moons. The perigee will be reached at 12:00 on November 14 and at 14:00 will reach the height of the full moon phase. So the best time to observe it will be Sunday night on Monday, is the next. The full moon of November 14, therefore, will not only be the closest moon of 2016, but also the largest of the 21st century. The last so occurred in 1948 and the next will be on November 25th 2034. Good evening friends! See you soon…

Non se ne può più! Nella prossima vita vorrei rinascere un cane…..magari il mio! Altro che mamma multitasking…..qui “è tutto un equilibrio sopra la follia” (cit. Vasco Rossi). Meno male che io risolvo tutto facendomi una bella risata.Con il tempo poi mi sono fatta anche furba ed ho iniziato a fare degli acquisti giusti che mi possono dare una mano. Uno di questi ve lo presento oggi ed è la mia asciugatrice a gas Vast&Fast professionale ed ecologica . E’ già…. cosa pensavate che facessi tutto da sola?Questa è una asciugatrice assolutamente rivoluzionaria! Intanto perché è a gas, anzi vi dirò di più, ne esistono 3 versioni: Gpl, Metano e quella che funziona con la pompa di calore elettrica. Lo sapete che cerco sempre di scegliere i prodotti che sono attenti all’ambiente ed ecologici e questa asciugatrice mi fa anche risparmiare perché non mi serve più l’energia elettrica. Grazie a questa macchina rivoluzionaria il mio eterno dilemma per il bucato non esiste più: sistemo la mia biancheria in lavatrice, appena finisce risistemo il mio bucato nella asciugatrice et voilà! Sapete perché dico voilà? Perché questa asciugatrice fa una cosa in più rispetto alle altre ed è quella di stirare! Infatti con il suo sistema Memory Fiber System distende tutte le fibre dei tessuti e li riporta al suo stato naturale. Avete capito bene….. sì stirare ! Non è perfetta e magnifica a misura di ogni donna? La Vast&Fast è una azienda che ha molti prodotti e tutti ottimi.Vi invito ad andare nel loro sito a dare un’occhiata e poi nei prossimi mesi avremo tempo per parlare di tutto. Ciaoooo

Ph. Verdiana Ramina 

But you, dear readers, how do you do it all? Ok forget it …. I start! You dear readers, how do you do it all? Home, work, children, washes, irons and then do eat, maybe even something special, just not present the usual lunch and then ….. because there is then we also have to think about ourselves and then run to the gym, hairdresser and buy the right suit …… Mamma mia! You do not talk about it! In the next life I want to be reborn a dog ….. maybe my! Another mom multitasking ….. here “is all a balance above the madness” (cit. Vasco Rossi). Good thing I solve all making me a good laugh. With time then I also made clever and I started making the right purchases that I can help out. One of these I will present to you today and it is my gas dryer Vast&Fast professional and ecological E ‘already …. what you thought I did everything by myself? This is an absolutely revolutionary dryer! Firstly because it is a gas, in fact will tell you more, there are 3 versions: GpL, Metano and one that works with electric heat pump. Do you know that I always try to choose products that are environmentally conscious and environmentally and this dryer is also saved me because I do not need more electricity. Thanks to this revolutionary machine my eternal dilemma for laundry no longer exists settle my underwear in the washing machine, just end rearrange my laundry in the dryer and voila! Do you know why I say voila? Because this dryer does something more than the other and that is to iron! In fact, with its Memory Fiber System relaxes all tissue fibers and brings them back to its natural state. You got it ….. yes iron! It is not perfect and beautiful to fit every woman? The Vast & Fast is a company that has many products and all ottimi.Vi invitation to go to their website to take a look and then in the next few months we will have time to talk about everything. ciaoooo

Ph. Verdiana Ramina 

The most beautiful thing that life can give me now is the time to be with my daughter, I do not ask anything, just that. I love sit in a corner, silent without her seeing me and observe it. She does not know what can give me in those moments. He does not know that at that moment she becomes my time machine and discussion brings to mind me as a child and I sink into a state of deep reflection and full of questions. The first among them is: Where are they gone? And then I wonder: Where did I miss? When I stopped talking to herself as she does when playing with her dolls? When I gave up laughing from morning to night, dancing and singing as she does? When I learned to hold back the tears instead of crying whenever I felt like it and when I stopped to smash everything to vent my anger when it was needed? I decided to keep it all in and swallow, but my question is when I started to swallow all that poison? When I started to believe that good manners were more just, rather than saying what I thought in the face to people? The same good manners that I steal space and thickness. I look Ginevra while arguing with his friends, and I think I did the same thing myself with my ….. There I fought like crazy, but like them today, after we were very little we forgot everything and became better friends than ever . When I thought it was right to be silent and suffer, rather than defend and clarify with the people?. When she is scolded really it seems that absolutely does not care; He listens to you, but it does not do neither hot nor cold! If you’re laughing keeps laughing and if playing continues to do so !! Then I think of all the times I was told that I am a careless and I reflect on the fact that at some point have changed because I felt wrong. Because? When I decided it was wrong to do so that no one could touch my serenity? I listen to my child while asking the why of things and while I try to answer everything, sometimes looking for the answer on Google, other on some old encyclopedia, I wonder why I stopped asking questions so smart? I think of all the times that wants one thing: can ask a thousand times an hour until he takes me to exhaustion and somehow does not get it and I stop to think about the fact that I have ceased to be so tenacious because I was wrong to be so. But who said that? It looks in the mirror and you say it is the most beautiful child in the world, I laugh and I think he has an ego super unnatural, then laugh again thinking that I do not even know when was the last time I looked in the mirror and I felt pretty. I watch her as she finds solutions to things, and I think it’s brilliant that they always manage to find them in the simplest things, but I when I started so complicate life? I wonder why it is not so easy to express your feelings toward that people who love each other, just as children do when they need us, our affection and our attenzioni.Dicono we put the world’s children to raise them and sometimes I It laughs because they think they are in the world with a greater awareness of what we believe abbiano.Credo that children need to be heard more than directed, that children need to be told that crying is good and then everything passes, more than feeling constantly say to stop piagnucolare.Credo is right that they learn to vent anger at the right time they have for nature, before they learn to vent to it elsewhere or with the weakest children. I am increasingly convinced that children need strong hugs and lots of love, and you know what I think? How much we need them too, only that unfortunately there we forgot! I first of all ….